I'm not sure, What part of pa do you live in? I'm in lancaster county, so if you're nearby i feel your pain with the weather.
I would DEFINITELY get snow tires on a new set of wheels. Getting moving is not easy, driving on a straight or even slightly curved road isnt too bad, I havent lost control yet, and getting stopped is simple, i can probably stop in a shorter distance than an SUV.
I would say try to find some cheap older subaru or audi that is all wheel drive just for snow and rain. Maybe even an older 325ix?